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October 19th, 2009 | 
Author: There are many signs of Domestic Violence:
The act of Introversion, ie: Becoming withdrawn from family, friends, loved ones.
Depression, ie: A Psycological disorder, also: becoming withdrawn from reality.
Low self esteem, ie: Not having a confidence & satisfaction in oneself. No self respect.
These are just a few signs to look for when you suspect that a friend,, loved one, family member or stanger may need help.
A battered woman will often blame herself for everything that goes “wrong” in her relationship. She will make excuses for her batter’s violent attacks against her, whether they are in a physical, mental or emotional way.
The abuse can last for years, she will often forgive him because with each occurrence his promise that “it will never happen again” is something that she longs to hold onto and believe in. She will desperately try to hide the bruises, the black eyes, the swollen lip……..but the emotional scar will last a life time. This often continues to happen behind closed doors until someone intervene’s or that one fatal moment when it all ends in tragedy.
Domestic Violence against women: It’s time to stand up and take a stand against this Crime against our Sisters of every nation! One Love, Keep God First!
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Mothers, what in the world would we do without them? Mothers are task with the most important responsibility in the world, enlight of not receiving the credit that they deserve. Their caring and nurturing abilities stay with us from childhood through adulthood. Their unconditional love can only be matched by the love of God. They try to teach us to become children of God, productive citizens in society, individuals with high values, morals and lovers of our brethren. Sometimes we listen, sometimes we don’t, but rest assured, when we’re in trouble they’re the first one’s we turn to. Mothers should be celebrated everyday not just once a year!
Sometimes their kindness is mistaken for weakness, but make no mistake about it, the strength of a woman has no limit and cannot be measured. Sacraficing most things to ensure that their children will have a roof over their heads, a meal to eat and clothes on their backs, never complaining or making excuses.
Mothers deserve to be respected, loved, charished and taken care of at all times. Tell her that you love her, show her that you care, because when she’s gone, she’s gone, it’s too late. Check on her and see if she needs anything without her having to ask. Treat her like the queen that she is and remember that a disobedient child will not live there days out! One Love, Keep God First!
We all fall short of the glory of God and he still loves and forgives us of our sins. No one is perfect, we all have skeletons in our closets, but for some reason we are so hard and unforgiving of each other. I know I’ve made mistakes I wish I could take back, but I can’t. I say I’m sorry very remorsefully but that isn’t good enough. You hold grudges, keeping all that hatred inside, mad at the world, mad at yourself. God loves and forgives you and me, how come you can’t? I guess misery loves company.
It starts with truly having God in your life, then and only then can you forgive yourself and others and not hold on to all that negativity. I made a mistake can I have another chance, have you ever made one? Do you want to be forgiven or punished for the rest of your life for a mistake you made in the past? Lets stop all this hatred of one another, spreading rumors, at the same time smiling all up in each others face, sitting all up in church talking about praise the lord and you can’t even forgive. I forgive me, I forgive you, do you forgive? Life is too short to waste. One Love, Keep God First!
Ladies as men; you know we love you, but sometimes you make it very hard on us. Not saying it should be easy, but when it turns into playing games, that’s not cool! Lets be honest, do you really know what you want? In order to get what you want, you have to know what you need! I know there are some men out there that make it bad for all of us, but is that fair? Don’t punish us for what your last man did to you, he’s gone on with his life and your still letting him control yours, even if you don’t want to admit it.
When you get a man that wants to treat you like the queen that you are, don’t take his kindness for weakness, he just understands your worth, do you? It’s ok to have a little surprise for him when he gets home somtimes instead of saying “I don’t do that stuff”. Don’t take your relationship too lightly, it needs the attention just like everything else that’s important to you. Now I’m not “Woman Bashing”, just trying to enlighten you from a mans perspective on what’s up. Ladies, don’t tear your man down, pick him up, encourage him, love him unconditionally.
Know that we (men) are not perfect, no one is, but if we can work together, have each others back and most importantly keep God ahead of our lives, there’s nothing that we can’t overcome. So don’t take this the wrong way, we’re just trying to communicate with you so you can understand how we feel. We love and need you. One Love, Keep God First!
The best creation God ever made is a woman! When you have a good woman her love is everlasting; hold on tight, love , respect and cherish her. God made man and woman for a reason and it wasn’t to be alone. Fellas it’s time to grow up, do you know what you want? A woman needs security, and unconditional love. She does’nt want to be the man but, she’s been forced to wear the pants.
When was the last time you told her you love her? When was the last time you showed her that you love her? When was the last time not for any reason or particular season you sent her a rose just because? Chivalry is not dead, at least it shouldn’t be. Fellas please take this advice from me, a womans worth should be recognized immediately! It shouldn’t take loosing her to realize that what you had good, now belongs to someone else! One Love, Keep God First!
Note: To be continued!
